Does your “boss” dictate your personal life?
Does he tell you who you can talk to, who you can date, who you can be friends with, what organizations you can serve, or what hobbies you can enjoy when you are not at work?
Does he declare who you can worship, who you can love, who you must be loyal to, who you must avoid?
Because if he does, his control freak is showing -as is your weakness.
YES, YOUR WEAKNESS
Not only would it be illegal for someone in “leadership” to do such an abhorrent thing. It is a blazing example of their lack of character and their desire to inflict psychological abuse on those around them, to feed their abyss of a soul.
So if you chose to remain in such a job, either you are just like him, or you lack the integrity necessary to detect and banish your leaders controlling and divisive ways.
In that case, you both get what you deserve!